Yesterday, my world shifted in a way I still can’t fully comprehend — my Granny passed away. To say that this loss is hard is an understatement. She wasn’t just my grandmother; she was one of the core people who made me who I am. If you know me well, then you knew her too — because I carried her with me everywhere I went. I shared her love, her laughter, her stories, and her spirit with my closest friends and anyone blessed enough to be part of my world.
Granny was the kindest, most vibrant soul I’ve ever known. She had a light about her — something gentle but strong, soft but deeply rooted in wisdom and grace. Her warmth could ease pain, and her laughter had the power to fill a room with joy. I’m still struggling to accept that I now have to walk through life without her voice, her presence, and her unconditional love.
Since the day I was born, it’s been the three of us — Granny, my mom, and me. She was a guiding force, always there with her quiet strength, unwavering support, and the kind of love that only a grandmother can give. She helped raise me, mold me, and pour herself into my growth in the most beautiful way possible. The memories we made together — the daily conversations, the shared meals, the quiet comforts — will stay with my mom and me for the rest of our lives. Eighty years is a beautiful, long life — but still, I can’t help but wish she had more time, especially with Nas. I wanted them to have more moments, more laughs, more hugs.
What brings me peace, though, is knowing how proud she was of me. She got to watch me grow into someone she might not have even imagined when I was a baby — someone shaped by her legacy, values, and love. That thought brings me comfort in the middle of my grief.
Granny left behind a legacy of strength, kindness, generosity, and resilience. I can only hope and pray that one day, I’ll leave behind something even half as meaningful as what she gave to this world. Her love will forever live in me, and in the hearts of everyone she touched.
Please keep my family in your thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Thank you in advance for your love, support, and condolences. 🖤
